I want to talk a little bit about manifestation.
It's critical to establishing a happy and successful life. And that
applies to every area of your existence, including sex and relationships.
In fact, if you want to recover a relationship which has broken up, then
I suggest you try
texting back to love with Mike
Fiore's excellent program, Text Your Ex Back.
You see, manifestation isn't just about things -
it's also about a state of mind, a way of being, and about you being proactive
rather than waiting for things to happen to you.
example, a lot of people believe that having prosperity or abundant wealth will
help them to achieve happiness. The truth is that no matter what
your experience of the world may be, you can be happy in it if your state of
mind is positive.
This isn't merely positive thinking for the sake of
positive thinking, but it's a very real principle about how you live your life.
Let me be clear about this: manifesting reality means that
you actually have the power to control how you feel in every set of
circumstances in your life, and it also means that you have the power to create
A lot of men worry about penis size, and a lot more men
and women worry about sexual success (lack of orgasm, lack of erection, and so
on) – but the truth of the matter is that first
and foremost this worry is only a state of mind called anxiety.
Secondly, the point is that many of these concerns and
worries and anxieties around sex and relationships manifest because of false
beliefs you hold about yourself.
These are beliefs which could easily be dispensed with and dismissed
out of hand if people were
willing to accept the fact that they have the power to control their emotional
state and the activity of their mind which leads them to a state of emotional
depression or worry.
But it's also about more than this: it's about being a
and emotionally mature adult in a world where a lot of people behave as though they were just
sex makes you feel inferior, shamed, small and inadequate, then it's your wounded
child who's controlling the show. If sex makes you feel successful and happy and joyous,
then it's undoubtedly your sovereign who's in charge.
And when it comes penis size, men worry in a ridiculous
way about their experiences. And while it's certainly true that a very small percentage of
men have abnormal penises which are a source of true anxiety, the vast majority of men
Their concern about penis size
is misplaced and ill founded – it's based on deeper feelings of inadequacy
and failure, and it does not reflect any sense of what women are looking for in a
man, nor does it reflect any real sense of self-esteem when a man feels
inadequate because he believes is penis to be too small.
I think one of the massive advantages of the Internet has
been the communication of information that otherwise people might not have
understood – and perhaps one of those areas is around penis size.
I know that these days (2015), the mad craze of penis
enlargement which was so prominent on the Internet in its early days seems to
have very few followers.
I think one of the reasons for this is because men have
seen not only the grossly enlarged and humongous penises belonging to porn
stars, but they've also seen (on many websites), the fact that penis size can
actually be smaller than 6 inches, and still considered to be perfectly normal and adequate for
a woman sexual pleasure.
So what I'm saying is that manifesting a reality that
actually causes you low stress (and even positive joy and happiness!) is all about
you taking charge of your life in every way, and ensuring that you have an attitude of mind
which encompasses not just the visualization of success and achievement, but
also sees you living out the reality of success and achievement by ensuring that you
don't succumb to the myths and untruths perpetrated by those who don't have your
best interests at heart.
Which means, if you want to manifest a reality where you
can stop worrying about whether you're sexually adequate or not, then take
charge: if you're a man, find a way of
controlling the speed of your ejaculation first of all.
Then work on the beliefs that you hold about yourself in
the world – for example whether you're sexually adequate or attractive.
Then, get some data around the reality of penis size, and
work on establishing a set of beliefs which will allow you to live happily, no
matter what the size of your organ, knowing that you can't manifest a physical
change in the size of your penis, but you certainly can manifest a different
attitude of mind.
Make no mistake about it, you are the only person who can
control the way you feel – or rather, when you are emotionally mature, you're
the only person who can control the way you feel.
Other people may
currently appear to have
control over your emotions, but when you've healed your emotional wounds, got
rid of your emotional baggage, and ensured that you're the one who's manifesting
your reality, then nobody else can impact on the way you feel. Then you are, in short,
in full control of your experiences and emotions, and that's a very desirable
place to be.