Penis problems 5My ejaculations are too weak - I just dribble when I come!Q: When I ejaculate, I only dribble a few inches. It's embarrassing really, although I suppose you could say it doesn't matter if I'm having sex, since no-one can see it. But when my girlfriend masturbates me, I'd like to produce a large quantity of semen, and I'd like it to shoot a long way. Call me vain if you will but, well, I'm a man, and producing a big load is a sign of manhood for me! A: There's nothing on the internet about whether or not this matters to women, so I think we have to conclude that it's probably a "male thing"! But that's understandable - penile erection, penetration, and ejaculation are the most powerfully male aspects of sex, and can sometimes seem like the visible proof of our masculinity. Happily there are ways that even the most feeble dribble can be improved - though it requires a bit of effort. As far as quantity of semen is concerned, a long session of lovemaking, or abstaining from masturbation or sex for a few days, will increase the volume of your ejaculate significantly. The longer your love-play, the greater the time for your prostate to produce more semen. And when you want a more powerful ejaculation, you can improve the tone of the muscles responsible for ejaculation, around the base of your penis and your anus and perineum, with Kegel exercises - that is, a series of muscle work-outs for your sex muscles! These are the muscles you use to twitch your erect or semi-erect penis: all you have to do to get them fighting fit for a powerful ejaculation is to contract and relax them a hundred times a day. After a short while, you'll have better, stronger orgasms, and your semen will spurt out much further. You might even be able to come like a porn star! If you cannot ejaculate at all, you may have a condition known as retarded ejaculation. The treatment for this condition, also known as male orgasmic disorder, can be found on the link above. Back to main problem page
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